Crap- I forgot about our one year wedding anniversary & now I only have 1 week to plan something- what do I do?

My husband and I are coming up on our one year wedding anniversary Saturday the 30th, and there's so much going on that I just completely forgot until now.





We have a three month old son so I was busy planning his first father's day.


Then right after father's day we are taking a three week long road trip across country so I've been reserving hotel rooms and making packing lists for that.


And the week we come back from our trip is my husband's birthday so I've been working on what to do for his birthday.





I'm sure I can get a babysitter for our son, no problem, my sister can watch him for a couple hours.





I love to cook and I'm constantly making his favorite foods, so "special dinners" just aren't special anymore.





And unfortunately I can't do any "sexy" surprises


I'm getting an IUD the day before our anniversary and the OBGYN (as well as several of my gal-pals) have all told me that I'll probably be too sore to have sex for a couple of days.





I want to do something nice...its just that I've already exhausted all of my creative energy planning his first father's day and this trip and his birthday


So any thoughts on what I can do or a gift I can give him would be greatly appreciated-
Crap- I forgot about our one year wedding anniversary %26amp; now I only have 1 week to plan something- what do I do?
wow seriously marriage is not just about sex. if that is what it takes to keep a marriage together then it is not a good one. If you can find a baby sitter you could go out for dinner together or even to the cinema if there is a film you would both enjoy. You shouldnt rise to peoples answers. Its sad if that is what she thinks it takes to make a marriage work!
Reply:Don't even pay attention to Kitty's answer..that one just angers me. Cook him his favorite meal with a nice desert. Maybe rent a movie and then give him a nice, long massage. You have more to offer than sex honey :-)
Reply:Reschedule the OB appointment because seriously THIS is why men end up cheating because you are too busy "scheduling things".





Sorry to say but it really sounds like you are going to lose the passion in your marriage if you cannot even keep up with your OBLIGATION to be your husbands mistress after one SHORT year of marriage.





THIS is why you don't marry because you got knocked up.





"A couple of hours"?!?!?!....yeah, that is really trying hard sweetie.
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