Will 3 years of mental trauma affect pregnancy and the health of the baby if we plan for one in a few months?

My husband and I had some issues between us but we are getting better and have resolved the issues and moving ahead. With this background of 3 years of fighting, mental strain and depression, is it ok to consider trying to start on the process of having a baby in another 4-5 months? I have not been on any pre-natals etc nor have had a great diet over this period. Do you think my stressed condition over 3 years will affect my pregnancy and the health of my baby if we try and conceive? I am 28 and have had irregular periods through out my life and hence am worried if I delay then there might be more complications getting pregnant.


What can I do from this moment to ensure that I can have a good pregnancy and a healthy baby?


Would appreciate your help.
Will 3 years of mental trauma affect pregnancy and the health of the baby if we plan for one in a few months?
Why not right??? If you are positive about having a baby this time why not... as you have said... you both resolved the problem and moving on now... everyone has a chances of becoming happy... Baby is not a problem we should not take it as a problem... it is a gift... having an angel around... it can gives us happiness and since you are 3 years married then go ahead... you might just need a baby as well in order to have a happy family...





It appears though that both of you are cooperative in resolving the issues so don't think it might be hard in having a baby... Finally your mental trauma will not affect the baby if it is not happening while you are conceiving... The thing is whenever you feel down just talk to someone... or whenever you feel crying just cry it out... but never keep it in yourself coz that's the time that It can affect the baby...





Go on with your plans... I'm pretty sure that if you will look things forward everything will be in its proper place... so don't be anxious of having an angel soon... you and your husband will gonna have a happy family soon... 3 years is enough in getting to know each other and adjusting to each others personality... so think positive and go ahead! Good Luck!
Reply:I would wait a few months to see if you really want to have a baby with this guy. Children do not solve your relationship problems. In fact, they tend to amplify them.





Healthwise, you should be fine.
Reply:dont have any children. . . .please!!!